Transfor Holidays

 

Transfor  Holidays

  Family gatherings can be like theatrical productions with elaborate preparations and moments of drama. The highs of expectations are often met by the reality of the complex connections that both nurture and limit us, This year the planets are aligning in ways that are likely to be challenging for most house

The idea that the spirit of the holidays has been overshadowed by commercialism is not a new one. Santa’s presence in stores, sponsored parades and a tidal wave of advertising to boost sales has muddled the season’s message with financial interests for a very long time. Yet we maintain a sense of hope based on the desirable notions of peace on Earth and good will to all. Christmas trees reflect the pre-Christian traditions that celebrated the return of the Sun in the Northern Hemisphere after the year’s shortest day on the winter solstice. We warm ourselves around the fire, enjoy our holiday food and drink and give presents in a spirit of hope and renewal. For many this is also a time of family gatherings that are meant to reinforce the ties that bind us together. Yet even religious faith and the celebratory mood do not untie the knots that complicate our most intimate relationships.
Family gatherings can be like theatrical productions with elaborate preparations and moments of drama. The highs of expectations are often met by the reality of the complex connections that both nurture and limit us, This year the planets are aligning in ways that are likely to be challenging for most househo